The Guest List

I think sometimes it's easier to get married when you're younger because you just know fewer people... and so your guest list is sort of cut out for you.  When you reach your thirties, you have to really cull the list and it's hard!  What about so-and-so that invited you years ago, but you've lost touch with.  Just how many of your parents' friends are allowed?  What about your boss?  Anyway, we made up a rule sheet that helped us a bit, but it was difficult.  We're also thinking about having a secondary list, but that is a whole other issue!